Do you know how to finger a woman?
Fingering is a sexual act which is done by sticking one’s finger(s) into a vagina for sexual pleasure. This therefore means that when a woman is fingered, her vagina is stimulated by the use of the finger(s) in order to bring about sexual pleasure and hopefully make her achieve an orgasm. More often than not during fingering, the finger or fingers are inserted into the vagina (pussy) to stimulate it.
A woman can finger herself or let her partner do the fingering for her. But being fingered by someone else is always more fun than fingering oneself. Many women would agree with me on this I guess.
There are two types of fingering, namely outer vaginal fingering and internal vaginal fingering.
Outer vaginal fingering
As the name implies, this type of fingering mainly involves the stimulation of the outside of the vagina. Here, the vulva and the clitoris are mainly massaged with the fingers. According to sex experts, massaging or stimulating the clitoris is the best way to make a woman to achieve an orgasm when it comes to outer vaginal fingering.
Inner vaginal fingering
Inner vaginal fingering mainly focuses on the stimulation of the inside of the vagina with the target mainly being the G-spot and the numerous other very sensitive areas scattered all over the inside of the vagina. In fingering the inside of the vagina and attempting to hit the G-spot, it’s advisable to let the woman lie on her back or sit in a chair while you insert only your middle finger or your middle finger plus your index or ring finger into her pussy. When inserting your finger(s) into your partner’s vagina, it’s important that you let your palm face upwards so you can use your finger(s) to stimulate the G-spot, which is said to be situated up the anterior wall of the vagina.
These are the two ways that fingering is normally done.
Now that we have seen the two types of fingering, let us now turn our attention to the most important part of this post – how to go about fingering a woman properly.
How to finger a woman the right way
Fortunately for me, these fingers of mine that I’m using to type this post have fingered a lot of vaginas for so many years I am beginning to feel like an expert in fingering pussies. If you are new to the art of fingering a woman, please don’t envy me; the time will come when you’ll also look back and be amazed by the number of women you have fingered.
Interestingly, many people – especially guys don’t know how to go about fingering their women the proper way. Some think fingering a pussy is achieved merely by inserting the finger or fingers in and out of a woman’s pussy continuously. There is much more to fingering a pussy than just poking your finger in and out of the pussy. Hopefully at the end of this post you’ll learn how to finger a woman the right way and make her achieve powerful orgasms.
So without any further ado, let’s look at this very important thing.
First thing to do before fingering her
The first thing to do before fingering your partner is to ensure that your hands are thoroughly washed before inserting them into her delicate orifice. You should know that the vagina is a very delicate place which shouldn’t be exposed to dirt and germs. Exposing the vagina to dirt or germs can be very bad for its health. This is why doctors always advise people who want to play with their vaginas or other people’s vaginas to make sure that they wash their hands very well before introducing them to the sensitive vagina. Apart from washing your hands very well, you should also make sure that your fingernails are trimmed so that they aren’t very sharp. Sharp fingernails can cause a lot of bruises and cuts in the woman’s fragile vagina.
Once the hands are washed thoroughly and the fingernails are trimmed so they aren’t sharp, you are ready to engage in the highly pleasurable activity of genital fingering.
Get her aroused before fingering her
One of the classic rookie mistakes with regards to fingering a woman is the mistake of just going straight for her pussy without first taking the time to get her wet. This is something that I often see some guys do with unpalatable consequences. They just meet the woman and want to instantly start poking their fingers in and out of her pussy. That’s not how to finger a woman. By the way, not too many women will allow that. I once saw a guy get slapped by a woman he was going out with when he tried fingering her without first getting her ready for it. Just make sure your woman is very wet before your hands go down there to start playing with her pussy.
This is very important and a reason why experts in this field advise that before you finger a woman (especially one who you do not have a very intimate relationship with), you need to make sure she’s totally comfortable with what you are about to do to her and most importantly she should be ready for it. By being ready for it, the woman should be aroused and wet and waiting for your fingers inside her.
When the woman is wet and fully aroused, she is more likely to let you do things to her body that she would have otherwise not allowed. At this point, she might even be the one begging you to insert your fingers or manhood into her because she’s now as horny as hell. You need to be patient enough to get her to this level, and you’ll be so glad you did.
In addition to the above, if you take your time to arouse her properly before fingering her, her pussy is going to get so wet it will start releasing juices. Now these juices released play a very important role in getting the pussy lubricated enough for your fingering or fucking. When the woman gets naturally wet, then you don’t need to use any lubricant while you finger-fuck or fuck her. Personally I have always loved the natural lubricant of a woman’s vagina juices than that of any artificial lubricant you can think of. By the way that juice is also tasty.
How to get a woman aroused or wet enough to be vaginally fingered
There are so many ways to get a woman aroused or wet and ready. You can make a girl wet with your words or your touch. Some guys are so good they can use words alone to turn a woman on to the point where her pussy starts dripping with juices. Some also use their hands to do the magic. Some too use both words and touch to get their women fully aroused. I’d advise you to use whatever method you know you can easily use to make your woman get horny.
For me, I normally start the show by touching and caressing her in places that I know she likes to be touched. The more I touch and caress her at the right places, the more she relaxes and becomes hornier. When I notice she is getting hornier and hornier, I gradually start kissing her. Many women love to be kissed. And since I know that, I take advantage of that and kiss her passionately while my hands carry on with the job of caressing her at the right places. I carry on with this for several minutes until I begin to notice that she is perfectly horny. You know she is perfectly horny when she starts to kiss you and hold you more passionately and aggressively. At this point, it is safe to assume that her vagina is wet and she’s now under your spell and begging you to take her.
Now is the time to start taking off her clothes and getting ready to touch her vagina. At this point you stand a very high chance of getting the green light from her to touch and play with her beaver. She’s so aroused and wet that she probably wants you to finger her even more than you do. So what are you waiting for? Go for it!!
When you have taken off her panties, I’d suggest you don’t insert your fingers instantly into her and start fingering. Remember her cookie is now all yours so you can afford to do whatever it is you want to do with it. You can eat it. You can pull out your dick and give it a good pounding. But since we are interested in fingering it, we shall do none of those – at least for now.
So what do you do?
Start by massaging her vulva, focusing a lot on her clitoris. Massage and stimulate the clitoris for a while until she is so wet you can see and feel her juices all over her coochie.
It is at this point that you slowly insert your finger inside her flooded vagina and start finger fucking it. You should initially start with only one finger (preferably the middle finger) before gradually introducing the index or the ring finger in addition to the first finger you put inside her.
One of the biggest mistakes many guys do when it comes to fingering their women is using the fingers to thrust in and out like a penis. This is so wrong simply because you are denying your woman from getting a lot of pleasure and making it difficult for her to achieve orgasm.
In order for a woman to get an orgasm, certain sensitive areas in her vagina have to be stimulated. And thrusting your fingers in and out of her like a dildo or a hard penis makes it difficult for your fingers to stimulate the sensitive and highly pleasurable parts inside the vagina.
You should be smart about it if you want your woman to enjoy the fingering to the point where she achieves a very powerful orgasm and ejaculates wildly.
Try and locate and stimulate the G-spot while you finger her. This is very important.
You can easily locate the G-spot up on the front vaginal wall after you have penetrated between 2 to 3 inches into the vagina. It isn’t that difficult to find the G-spot because of its texture which is quite different from the texture of the rest of the vagina’s inside. The G-spot is one of the most pleasurable parts of a woman’s vagina, which is the reason why many women experience extremely powerful orgasms and ejaculations when this spot is stimulated. For some women, the pleasure from the orgasm associated with G-spot stimulation is more than the pleasure derived from an orgasm associated with only clitoral stimulation.
In order to stimulate your woman’s G-spot very well to give her an intense orgasm, you need to use your fingers to stimulate the spot directly and with some pressure – something which sometimes proves very difficult for a penis to do – especially if you are using the missionary position.
Conclusion
In concluding this article, I want readers to know that the finger(s) can sometimes be mightier than the penis in giving women powerful orgasms because it is capable of reaching and stimulating several sensitive and pleasurable places within the vagina that the penis cannot reach or stimulate. This is the reason why many women love to be fingered by their partners. And this is the reason why if you haven’t been fingering your woman, you should start doing so right away. But while you are at it, please remember the guidelines in this article.
And please always remember that it is a sin and a crime to finger someone without their consent! Never do that!
